Talk to someone. That’s the best solution. Let’s face it guys, uni can be a tough time. It’s not always going to be easy. Sometimes things will get the better of you – whether it’s paid work, academic work, friends, family, or just not being able to do what you want at times. Unless you have an abnormally sunny disposition, almost all of us go through these kinds of moments, but we don’t have to dwell on them all by ourselves. Problems can be fixed, and there are people to help. Welcome to the world of university counsellors.
While I’ve not been myself, I’m assured they’re fantastic, and given they’re always working with students, their experience in dealing with the problems that uni students can face is second to none. They operate on both the Cumberland and Camperdown Campuses, with free 50 minute sessions from 9-5. For more info, check out their website at:
http://www.usyd.edu.au/stuserv/welfare/counselling.shtml
If however, you don’t feel like going to see a counsellor (for whatever reason), I do stress that it’s imperative that you speak to someone. A family member, or a close friend, just someone you know will listen to you, and help you sort out how you’re feeling or how you can solve your problem. There is nothing so big it can’t be fixed, but sometimes things are a little too much to solve on your own. So, don’t be shy. Go out there and improve your situation now, without delay. I know I have.
Comments
This is a great post Simon. The counseling service is something that is so vital to the welfare of students, yet I think for a lot of people there’s a bit of a stigma attached to it. Like – the thought that seeing a counselor means you have failed, or you’re an attention seeker, or you’re one of “those people” with a therapist, an addiction to prescription drugs and too much time on their hands.
But despite what the old people say, it’s not always easy being a student. Counseling provides an impartial ear when you need it, and from personal experience it can help you bypass the slippery slope into something much worse. Thanks for posting on this.
Posted by: Cath | March 1, 2007 04:22 PM
who said anything about an addiction to prescription drugs?!
bloody hell... aren't we getting a little ahead of ourselves? I realise o week can be a bit of a drain, but boy, if it's getting tough now wait until you get to your final year exams!
and maybe you could make reference to this development (http://www.usyd.edu.au/news/84.html?newsstoryid=1607) instead of just linking to the stock-standard counselling webpage
Posted by: greg | March 2, 2007 02:26 PM